I often go to a Juventus forum (an 80% spoken in Italian I may add). I first joined that forum in 2005 when we were drawn against each other in the quarters of the CL.
When I first joined I wasn't readily accepted, as was anticipated of course and over those 2 legs I was engaging in conversation all the time. I chatted with many Juventus supporters and it was really heart warming that they accepted me as Liverpool supporter and didn't give me abuse at all. We chatted like adults. We did discuss Heysel and there were many differing opinions of which I learnt a lot.
Some of them still harbour a lot of resentment and I can totally understand that. Some of them have forgiven but not forgotten and others were more resentful of UEFA and the Stadia. But we all got along which was the main thing.
After we beat them they all congratulated us on a deserved victory and wished us well in the CL. When we won it they were happy for me and Liverpool - although I'd hazard a guess that it was mostly because of who we beat!
Anyway that was 8 years ago. Fuck me as I wrote that I can't believe how much time as gone by.
Anyway over the course of the 8 years I kept in contact with them and I have a real friendship now with a couple of Juventus supporters.
When I went to Italy a few years ago I met the two of them and I stayed at one of them's place for the night whilst we were out drinking!
Many Juventus supporters still don't forgive and I totally understand that too but time has thawed the relationship between the clubs definitely.
So I'll hold the Juventus supporters opinions over Heysel in much more regard than anyone else's views in their attempts to win points in a debate or use it as a stick to dish out stupid comments.
But AC Milan are my italian team and boy do they know that